Declare war on clutter

Take yourself to one room in the house.  Take a good look around and see what is there that is clutter. Pick it up and put it in the bin. Repeat the process. Try this again four more times.  You have just started a wonderful process called decluttering.  As you progress through this you will find it liberating. Try this technique every day and you will get the hang of it and will be able to invite people into your home and things will go better for you.